Mexicans networking beyond the family unit

“Social climbers tend to choose godparents of as high a social or economic status as they can.” Centro de Idiomas, Mazatlán

The family unit runs through every aspect of Mexican life. The connected nature of families mean they are seen as a vital source of economic and educational stability. The family home is a firm foundation for men, and although some might move abroad to learn and work, it is perceived as a core social institution. Loyalty within the family is crucial, absolute and primary social ties are structured through blood dissent. Family honour is seen as the moral standard for young men, and many usually find themselves working for their fathers, uncles and within industries associated with family tradition. But gradually a more modern, open society is being accepted in Mexico.

Modern Mexico families realise the importance of endorsing outsiders, or godparents, as they are an invaluable source of work prospects and support in personal matters. Urban city centres attract men of all ages primarily to find work, and through blood relations, they tend to find some sort of footing. But as the job market tightens, increasingly job opportunities come from outside the family unit. Mexican men are cutting the emotional ties they have with the family home to allow for more flexible work arrangements and a wider support mechanism. Although the family is the one true thing for men to rely on and believe in, the stress of looking after parents, grandparents and the family home is having an affect on a younger generation who want more out of life.